Thankful

[kitanzi]

It's that time of year, and I do have a lot to be thankful for. Sometimes I feel like I do nothing but whine and complain about my health, my finances, my personal issues, but the truth is I have a job that isn't driving me to a breakdown, I have a home I can walk into at night and feel is a place of safety and relaxation, I have (more than) enough good food to eat, I have people that I love dearly who love me back, even if some of them live toooo far away and are having life-eating issues of their own. (Big Bearhugs to all of you, especially Maedbh7!)

I think, though, that I should especially give thanks to and for my husband. He gives what I need and needs what I can give, and is the truest partner I've ever had. I never, ever planned to get married - I had no faith in the institution, having seen what seemed to be the vast majority of those I observed crumble insidiously around the heads of those who took that plunge. Still... It's been just a few months over a year, and maybe I'm jinxing us here, but I think I've found a person I can actually see living together, growing old together and finally breaking that March marriage curse with. I am, in fact, truly thankful.

Comments

[autographedcat.livejournal.com]

*hugstight* I love you. :)

[celticdragonfly.livejournal.com]

Happy Thanksgiving to you. Life's good, isn't it?

What's a March marriage curse? If you don't mind me asking.

[kitanzi.livejournal.com]

My family name is March. You want the full run down on how many divorces run in my immediate family, never mind the more extended ones? Let's just say that if I stay married, it will be very nearly unprecedented for quite a ways out on my family tree, on both sides.

[kitanzi.livejournal.com]

And, to clarify for the record, I AM staying married. :)

[celticdragonfly.livejournal.com]

Absolutely! You two are cute.

[celticdragonfly.livejournal.com]

Ah, I see. I was thinking month of March, and was confused. My family was the other way around, until my generation... sigh.

Well, I've got it right at last.

[poltr1]

Repeat after me: "Life Is Good."

I know that for me, it's easier to spot the bad things in my life (i.e. the shadows) than it is to spot the good things (ie. the gold).