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[kitanzi]

I'll be cutting down my friends list over the course of the week just to make it less unwieldy and easier to keep up on. No offense to anyone being cut, and frankly I doubt I'll do much more posting on here, if any. I just have no enthusiasm for it lately.

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[kyttn.livejournal.com]

Not a lot to say - I understand boredom with LJ and a need to concentrate on real life. It doesn't help that LJ ends up being a place for people (big arrow appears pointing down at my head) to vent or whine or do memes rather than (except for a few rare cases) writing anything of real interest or positive things about the day.

That said, a post every 3-4 months or so to let us know you are ok would be much appreciated....

[kitanzi.livejournal.com]

Please believe me, I was NOT objecting to anyone using LJ to vent or work things out. I think it's good for both of those things. However, I look back at all my recent posts (for VERY loose values of recent) and it's all memes, links and bitchery. It's just no fun anymore. I will keep reading and commenting, I just won't post, or at least very little, and I'll cut down the reading. I do read yours, and will continue to - I just wish I could offer more useful comment than "*hugs*". Sometimes I don't comment just because I feel like I have nothing useful to say.

[kyttn.livejournal.com]

I know you weren't making comments about the content of other journals - you aren't that type of person. And, I admit, I'm glad if you keep reading mine, even though I whine a great deal. I've thought about stopping LJ because I do nothing but whinge in it, but for me that would be a bad idea. Being able to cry on the shoulders of my LJ friends is one of the few things that keeps me putting one foot in front of the other, because while I am sure people get sick of my whining, there is always someone willing to give me ahug and remind me I am not as alone as I feel. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way for every one, and if LJ isn't bringing you any relief or pleasure, then it makes sense for you to back away. As long as you or Rob post now and again to let us know nothing awful has happened, I won't fuss terribly about you doing what is right for you and pulling back.

*sigh* I miss you guys. Unfortunately the odds of seeing you any time soon seems slim to none :(.